It is important to remember that you are not your mind. This recognition is a central “task” in the spiritual journey. Human life, by its nature, constantly draws us into identifying with our minds. This identification often leads to feelings of separation, loneliness, and unhappiness, which many of us experience regularly.
When you feel the urge to emphasize differences between yourself and others, recognize that this impulse originates from your mind. These impulses often arise when the ego seeks validation. To strengthen our sense of individuality, the mind highlights distinctions—political, religious, cultural, or national. Some may focus on differences in race, sexual orientation, or physical traits. In extreme cases, we may create adversaries to feel superior. Yet, in every instance, these differences are constructs of the mind, serving to bolster the ego’s sense of self.
When your mind tries to convince you that you are separate from others—often portraying them as ignorant or inferior—it is projecting the same flaws it criticizes. While we appear to be distinct individuals, this perception is an illusion. Human existence is deeply rooted in this illusion of separation. However, it is possible to live with this awareness while keeping the truth of unity in our consciousness. In interactions with those who remain unaware of this truth, we may sometimes need to act within the illusion. Yet, the challenge of the spiritual path is to see beyond appearances and perceive the deeper reality.
When you feel the impulse to magnify differences in others, use it as an opportunity to uncover deeper truths. Differences are created and amplified by the mind. Tomorrow, your beliefs may shift, and the distinctions you saw yesterday will fade away. Boundaries change, flags evolve, and physical appearances are fleeting. Your mind and its activity are not permanent. By recognizing what is eternal, you will see others as they truly are. Like a mirror, this understanding will reflect your true self.